Wednesday, March 10, 2010

“Because. I said so!” And other life lessons Mom didn’t know she taught us.

Turns out Mom had a valid argument!  I used to think that she was being vague, evasive, or obtuse when I’d ask her the most ingenious question a speaking person can concoct “Why?” She’d simply reply with these wise words, repeatedly, usually getting louder with each follow up request.  “Because. I said so!  That’s why.”Because. I said so!

She must have thought that I didn’t hear her first response, which would explain her generous willingness to repeat the answer no matter how many times I’d ask.   But truth is; I could hear her.  I didn’t understand her.  And for some reason, we as humans, especially young ones, just don’t take the time to clarify our requests.  If I had only asked her what she meant when she replied the way she did, I could have saved myself years of frustration and given myself a lead in the manifestation department.  But alas, that’s Cruzan in my Mojito, hindsight has had lasik, thanks to Uncle Gov for flex spending accounts.

In any case here’s what I might have learned about life if I’d rephrased my question:

(What is Mom so right about?  Let’s break it down:)

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Dreams, Visions, Realities

If you are dreaming of your future, it is time to get out of your head.

Make a vision board.
If you want to turn your dream into your reality you’re going to have to get out of your head.  Are you dreaming of a more vibrant future?  Of a two-story Tuscan villa in a cozy cul-de-sac?   Of growing your cupcake business to reach the savvy SF diners?  Or of feeding the hungry bellies of Tanzania’s kindergartners?   It doesn’t matter what your dreams are, if they’re personal or philanthropic, if they’re dreams they are likely to stay in your head.   But wouldn’t it be cool to get them out of your head and into your reality?

A little boy dreamed of taking his dog to Mars?  “What a ridiculous idea!” His friends touted.  But not his parents, we know this because that year Santa dropped off a very cool new shinny telescope.  The scope wasn’t powerful enough for him to see Mars, but it was able to keep his head in the stars.  Read the rest of this entry »